When
I began this blog a few years ago, part of the thinking was that we needed to
re-evaluate how we deal with issues and in turn, how we deal with one
another. We should discuss events, not
people. Additionally, those who have
opposing viewpoints are not adversaries or worse, enemies but simply those who
don’t agree – nothing more or less. Sadly,
often one can see the violation of this principle. This past week, the ridiculousness ventured
out of the world of politics and into the state of Kansas. The target was the First Lady and the subject
was a commencement address.
In
Topeka, Kansas, Michelle Obama was approached to give a commencement speech at
a combined ceremony for the city’s high schools. It is typical that during this time of year,
celebrities, politicians and other noteworthy individuals span throughout
America’s campuses to provide parting words of wisdom for high school and
college graduates. Throughout the
country, various schools manage to provide for honored guests as well as the parents
and friends of the graduates. However, a
group of students and parents in Topeka felt the presence of Mrs. Obama would
prevent friends and family from attending the ceremony and additionally, take
away the attention from the graduates.
Those who oppose the First Lady’s address have certainly done that.
First
of all, the First Lady is not a political figure but simply a well-known
one. The address would likely not
include any political content. So, what
is the objection? It is hard not to see
this as the political salvo the protestors fear might come from Mrs.
Obama. Oscar Wilde once said that “man is least
himself when he talks in his own person.”
So when students and parents face television cameras and say this has
nothing to do with politics, I don’t buy it.
Call me dubious, but it seems the situation is nothing but
politics. It is not hard to imagine the
uproar if the president, also approached to speak in Topeka, were the one to
appear.
Part
of the reason for the appearance of such a highly-placed figure is the fiftieth
anniversary of Brown v. Board of
Education of Topeka, Kansas – the case that struck down the legality of
segregation. Whether people in Topeka
have it in for Mrs. Obama or have never gotten over the Warren Court’s push
toward desegregation, the message comes across the same. During the presidency of George W. Bush,
there was so much disrespect directed at the president, including a book
published to highlight how to assassinate the chief executive which met with no
Democratic outcry, one would think that Republicans would know the importance
of respecting the office, if not the man.
However, some have decided that turn-about is fair play.
Historically,
the extraordinary partisanship of modern politics seems to have borne out of
the Watergate scandal and the Robert Bork nomination process. Since, the rhetoric has been contrarian to
the point of being childish. It needs to
stop and the only way to do so is begin the respect process. So, for all the Republicans out there seeking
affirmation for their bent notion of politics and political gamesmanship, grow
up. Barak Obama is the president of the
United States. He was elected to the
office not once but twice. His wife is
the First Lady and Michelle Obama deserves the respect of her position. How can one demand respect without first
giving it?
Since
the days of Jefferson, Americans have accepted the will of the people in
changing the government and conservatives, throughout the years, have
championed respect for the state. Still, it was decided Mrs. Obama will speak at a
separate ceremony away from the graduation.
Meanwhile, those who protested will sit in the graduation arena in May
and feel smug in the notion that they kept “that woman” out. Then, ten or twenty years later, their kids
will morph into people whose jaded outlook of life will include a lack of
respect in all things that should be important to Americans and they will wonder
where they learned such unflattering notions.
They will be able to find their answers, provided there are mirrors in
the house.