His heart was as
great as the world, but there was no room in it to hold the memory of a wrong.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Letters and Social Aims, 1876
Ralph Waldo Emerson, Letters and Social Aims, 1876
Forgiveness
is a nebulous concept these days. When I
consider the things that have happen around the world and within my country, I
wonder how things would be different with the concept of forgiveness. What would happen to the cultural and
societal quagmires if clemency could be employed? All major religions have a great deal to say
on the matter – making it more puzzling why the adherents of these many faiths
forget their teachings. When we despair
at the state of the world and our own communities, it is refreshing and healing
to look back and remember our teachings.
In
Judaism, one of the most amazing stories of forgiveness lies with the story of
Joseph. It might be known to readers
that Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery.
However, Joseph rose to prominence and was later in a position to
confront his brothers during a time of famine and he in a position to
distribute food. As mentioned in
Genesis, Joseph forgave them saying that God had brought him to his current
position, not them. The Talmud
emphasizes this Mitzvah by stating, “Whose iniquities does God tolerate? A person who forgives the transgressions of
another.”
The
most telling story of forgiveness in Christianity is seen when Jesus address
the masses during the Sermon on the Mount.
In Matthew, Jesus cautions that before one can go to God in prayer, in
their heart, they must first forgive their fellow man. The Lord’s Prayer is filled with the virtue
of a forgiving heart while Jesus, in His last moments on the cross, forgave
those who placed him upon it. In Islam, there
are many names of God including the “most Forgiving,” “the most Merciful” and
the “most Compassionate.” The Prophet
Muhammad epitomized this trait and its importance when he forgave the leaders
of Mecca who had attacked, belittled and railed against him since leaving his
hometown seven years prior. The Quran
states, “The reward of the evil is the evil thereof but whosoever forgives and
makes amends, his reward is upon Allah.”
In
Hinduism, forgiveness is such an honored trait that Vishnu said only one born
with the virtues of the divine forgives.
Gandhi underscored this trait saying only the strong can forgive. As an element of Karma, it is what defines
one’s life and therefore, the lives that are yet to come. As Hinduism emphasizes this trait, so does
Buddhism. The way one achieves
Enlightenment is through something called the Eightfold Path. A part of this path is “right thoughts.” A begrudging heart can never achieve the
right thought required of all Buddhists and therefore, forgiveness is an
essential part to inner peace and spiritual awakening. One who cannot expunge hatred or resentment
carries it with them and is soon enveloped by it.
As
when I wrote about thankfulness a couple of years ago, I do not profess any expertise
with the trait of forgiveness. In some
ways, I’m worse because I know what God expects from me but do not always meet
His demands. It is a struggle but one
that I strive to overcome each day. To
forgive is to love – it eliminates hate and therefore, eliminates
conflict. Within each faith that I’ve alluded
to here are simple guidelines to how to live with our brothers and sisters and
ourselves. If we can do this, imagine
the world we can create.